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1. Is sex hotter for you when it's forbidden? Or do you get wracked with guilt and it's not enjoyable? i am done partaking in relationships that would be forbidden....so i guess this question really doesnt apply? As far as sexual events that would be forbidden ( by societies standards?) yeah....that gets me hot....the thrill of possibly getting caught is quite the aphrodisiac....

2. Are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you? Do you need an emotional commitment from your partner for sex to be fulfilling? they used to be .....but lately.....i really do not have the energy ...or care to take the risk of a casual sexual encounter.....& yes...i do need an emotional commitment from my partner for it to be fulfilling.....((i think i am growing up....LOL ))

3. Do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it's more difficult to make a commitment and/or stay committed to your partner? not at all....u just have to find a partner who is open & willing to try new things.....it may result in a dryspell as you wait for that person...but the wait is worth it in my book....

4. Have you ever joined or participated in an online dating site? If not, would you ever consider it? What about a fetish site, such as alt.com? yes...yahoo..match...lava...lifestyles....sure....why not....in this day & age when our lives are on warp-drive....& we all seem to be so technologically driven....its only going to increase your chances....the key is to be very selective ....& ensure "in-person" happens relatively quick in the relationship....or...
in my opinion...there is too much build up...assumptions...ideas...anticipation for it to really work later..... ((there are exceptions to this rule of course....Sheets found true luv in another blogger.....& they are now married ! =)

5. What is the weirdest fetish you've heard of? i study that shite for my PhD....so unfortunately....i've researched them all....& really nothing surprises me anymore...LOL

Bonus (as in optional): The definition of 'fetish' is so vague. Do you think you have a fetish(s)? If so, do you want to share what it is? ;) BALD men.... nice full lips...sensual skin....tattoos....& uniforms! LOL

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1. Under what conditions would you kiss a stranger?
if they were hawt....cause quite honestly?....strangers are just friends we have not met yet =)

2. Who was the last person you sent a text message to? If you’ve never sent someone a text message, is there some reason?
My last text mssg went to Stubeans....we were going back -n- forth re this weekends plans on how to entertain his nephew who is flying in friday nite.

3. When was the last time you deliberately surprised someone?
that would be last week when i put my 'believe' bracelet on the wrist of someone who i felt needed the affirmation at a point in their life more than i did. =)

4. How often do walk somewhere (hopefully, other than the mailbox)?
not as often as i would like....but the puppers sure enjoy our walks (few times a week)....

5. What were the longest and shortest durations of your romantic relationships?
longest?....3 yrs.....shortest?.....couple month's...


*Bonus (as in optional):What is missing from your life*

if i knew what was missing.....i would remedy it.....i guess a steady income is the only thing right now that i really need....all else is a choice.....
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1. What can you consider as the greatest thing you've ever done for/ to yourself?

Believed in myself....of course ...not the easiest thing....but in the end....always the greatest.

2. What/ Which part of your life you think you could have done better and why?

the yrs that i allowed the influence of a man (who ultimately decieved me ) to keep me away from my family & not mend the relationships. i of course divorced him...but i can never get those 8 yrs...yes...8 yrs back that i chose not to speak to my family.....

3. Do you have that one person whom you consider to be the wind beneath your wings?

yes....i do have someone...who i can call at anytime to talk me off the ledge if need be....

4. Tell us about your longest relationship.

oh mon dieu.....u don't really want to read that old fodder......unless of course u are looking for the cure for insomnia?

5. In a relationship, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?

HA!....is THIS ever a loaded question......um yeah...i guess it is when i fail to see that look in my partners eye...u know the one....the look that says you are their world....once that disappears?...the end is soon coming......

Bonus (as in optional):What is that one intimate moment with someone you miss so much and what are you willing to risk to have another moment of it. ;)

true ...unconditional....carnal knowledge....w/ no inhibitions....lost in eachother....& i would risk quite a bit to taste that again.....

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1. Which one turns you on more Ink or piercing? Why?
INK....prolly because of the stories behind the ink.....i luv hearing the design stories....many times people surprise me....& i luv being surprised...

2. What ink do you have? If none, what would you get and and where?
my reservation insignia is on my ankle....OM MANI PEDME HUM is on my lower back....& i have an OM between my shoulder blades @ my heart chakra to help keep my heart open.....

3. What piercing do you have? If none, what would you get and and where?
ears....nose...belly button....hood (functional..not ornamental)

4. Any other adornments you like to do for your lover or have then do for you?
strange question....& not applicable at this time...so i get to skip it ....HA!

5. Of all of the above is there anything that is an immediate Turn-Off?
nope.

Bonus (as in optional): If money/work place rules/your life/whatever what ALL would you do to your body in the name of sexual or just general adornment? well...i think i understand this grammatically poor question....& my thoughts are that i have never NOT done something because of work rules....i was once asked to remove an eyebrow piercing at a salon i worked at.....before quitting.....i wrote a nice letter to the management explaining how hypocritical i felt the org was due to the owners being gay...& how we signed a form allowing them to fire us if it was ever mentioned in a negative light......so...basically....they demanded we accept them as they were .....yet.....we as employee's were to change our personal expression because they didnt like piercings....um yeah.....NOT!

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1. what's the sexiest gesture a person you are sexually interested can make?
whisper something nasty ..... :::chills:::

2. what are 3 inevitable things about you?
my intelligence, my ability to 'read' people & the situation, & something i recently have accepted--> my 'intense-ness'

3. how many types of orgasms have you experienced?
HA! um...thinking really quickly...doing a mental run-down....9? & no i will not describe....

4. what asset do you have besides the physical and the material?
MENTAL!..have we not covered this?....

5. what do you want . . . . now?
less anxiety....

Bonus (as in optional):describe a sexy mind...one that questions the world in which we live in....one that challenges themselve....one that isnt afraid to be vulnerable....one that is uber honest....one that experiments....one that is sensually in touch.....& one that possesses intelligence..... =)
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1. Would you stay in a relationship with an physically unfaithful partner? nope
2. Would you stay in a relationship with an emotionally unfaithful partner? nope
3. On a scale of 1-10, how important is the recognition of birthdays to you (your's, a friend's, a partner's)? 10
4. When you have a "toe-curling" orgasm, do your does curl up, or down? depends on the position....missionary..toes up.....doggie...toes grippin for stability =)
5. Every one has a pet peeve, tell me one of yours.....bad grammar..bad listener....& messiness...

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1) Do you have/ever had any dating or sex superstitions? (Wear 'lucky jeans' on first date, always light a vanilla candle, etc.) If so, what are they?
not that i can think of......sorry....kinda boring answer ...huh?

2) If you were stranded on the old deserted island, and a genie appeared who could only grant you one wish -- to bring one of the following people to join you, who would it be?

- your spouse/significant other
- an unrequited love or some person you've had a crush on
- an old/past love
X- your best friend

3) Tell us "weather or not" you're in the mood -- how does rain, snow, sleet, scorching heat, sweltering humidity etc. affect your libido.
anyone who has been reading this blog for any length of time....knows what rain does for me.....its the most motivating of all weather conditions.....snow?..in the mountains ...w/ a fire?...same =) ....all types of heat....if not accompanied by pool activities?....can go suck an egg !

4) Are you a crying drunk, an angry drunk, a 'I'm drunk, let's screw' sort of a drinker? (And, if you do not drink -- which one of those things is the reason?)
i dont drink to the level which would cause my behaviour to be exaggerated.....however....i USED to be a goofy drunk who's libido was out of control..... =)

5) Who turns you on the most & why: wow....gr8 question.....lets see:
* the activist -->moderate level....prolly due to the amt of passion involved....

* the author --> high level....words can move mountains....& very rarely do you find someone who can =)

* the care-giver/healer (nurse, doctor, masseuse, herbalist, chiropractor etc.) --> medium level...usually one would think high level here...but if their personality is smarmy.....no matter what their talent is regarding physical comfort....my brain will override....eventually... =)

* the comedian -->low level... comedy has its place....if someone is 'always on'...& unable to be real when its needed....no intimacy will develop...

* the educator (professor, teacher, mentor etc.) --> high level...mmmm brains =) enough said....

* the model -->low level....havent really met any uber smart ones.... =) fun to play w/ but thats it.

* the musician -->um...yeah...extreme level.....u know they can play the body ....like they love their instrument..... =)

* the politician ......no level of turm on whatsoever!

* the scientist --> medium level....geeks are hawt in their own little way.....

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1. Leather, lace or silk?
ALL 3

2. Do you subscribe (or regularly buy) to any "dirty" magazines? Which ones?
I get the 'toys in babeland' site newsletters.....other than that I do not buy any mags....

3. Have you ever had sex in water (tub/pool/lake/ocean)?
all the time =)

4. The three words that best describe you in bed are:
insatiable, creative, & willing.
Three words that best describe your most recent partner in bed are: freak,driven, & sensual.

5. Did you lose your virginity as an impetuous youth, "to prove that you loved" him/her, because of a romantic gesture, a newly wed or other (please describe because I can't think of what an "other" might be)?
Previously covered ........but long story short...opportunity knocked at an explorative age....it was a good experience =)

Bonus (as in optional): Name three words that:
a) get you excited
cock, spankings, & anything dirty whispered.....

b) make you squirm
(in a good way) ..pussy, fuck, now

c) make you laugh
but-tocks, weenie, kittycat

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1. What's the sexiest type of underwear?
Women? ...brazilian thongs....or those oldfashioned gartered panties.....Men?....tight boxershorts.

2. Would you/have you ever paid money for sex?
nope

3. Is facial/body hair sexy or no? (Moustache, chest, etc. for men, and underarms/legs for women.) Or do you frankly not care?
fu man ok....bald uber hot...other than that....prefer trimmed or shaved.... =)

4. What is the strangest thing you've ever seen featured in pornography?
scatting...beastiality...

5. What's worse, not enough sex or too much? Is there such a thing as "too much"? Not enough is worse......& I would have to say ....no ....never too much...& I say this because sex doesnt always have to be a hot & heavy down & dirty session......it can consist of soft...caresses....long lingering kisses.....a sensual body rub....... =)

Bonus: What's the most illegal thing you've ever done (that you can admit to, at least)? Were you caught? I plead the 5th....

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1. Who was your childhood hero?
My father =)
2. Have you ever had sex with someone who has a myspace page?
ah...no!
3. What fantasies have you openly told your partner about?
being taken
4. Have you ever said you love someone but didn't mean it?
no... saying 'I love U' is something I don't do easily.....nor take casually.
5. Have you ever woke up in the morning and did not know the person who was next to you?
nope

Bonus (as in optional): Do you remember a time when you were having sex that you smile or even laugh about now? Do tell....
I laugh all the time...during....looking back.... & looking forward to more fun times is what keeps relationships alive....when I don't have that between me & my partner....there really isn't a need to continue.....to me that is an indication that walls have been constructed....that 'feeling' contributes to non-trust...& a lack of being open & in the moment.

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1. Describe your first kiss.
wet...uber sloppy...at summer camp....gross....surprising....
2. Should a person's pubic hair be trimmed, shaved, or just grown out as the jungle God intended it to be?
YES .....people!....for the love of everything edible......trim...shave...wax...condition...wash...freshen...& otherwise be the hostess with the mostess....or there ain't gonna be any attendees at the party in your pants!
3. What's the best super-hero comic book movie ever made?
Sailor - moon.....LOL
4. Coke or Pepsi?
Hands -down.......COKE!......& now I can even say that Coca-Cola has created an equal to Mountain Dew.....it is called Vault. They make this nuclear green colored one .....& a red one ...just like the dew! =)
5. Have you ever been caught masturbating?
LOL....of course......it is a gr8 way to get the par-tay started!!
6. Which way do you lean your head when going for a kiss?
me ....to the left.....to start.... =)~
7. Jockstraps, sexy or no?
UBER!

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever used the excuse, "Oh, I was so drunk that night, I don't remember a THING!"
as an excuse?...no....as a reason....yes...LOL

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1. Does the carpet match the drapes?
What Carpeting?
2. Have you ever used personal information about someone to blackmail them?
no.....& I wouldn't begin to know how.....
3. What is your favorite thing to lick?
ice-cream cones, the spoon when baking, & popsicles.......
4. Have you ever had sex in a place of worship? (i.e., church, temple, mosque, etc.)
does getting molested by the choir director in the balcony when I was practicing my recital piece count?....... other than that....no
5. If you watch video porn, do you buy it in a store, from a catalog, online, or download it? LINK!!! ;)
all of the above.... & my links are all down the side under the erotica section =) feel free to peruse......but please....clean up after yourselves!!

Bonus (as in optional): How often, if ever, do you "fake it?"
>once again.....Y the hell would anyone do that!?!......

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1. If you were to face the Wizard of Oz, would you want more courage, more brains, or more heart?
More heart,,,,,only because that would naturally allow me both more courage & brains =)

2. Have you ever gone to court for anything? What for?
Two Divorces...yes...your eyes did not deceive you.....2! hey...life's too short....it just wasn't working.....once the trust goes.....why bother with the rest?

3. What was the last thing you did that you previously told yourself you wouldn't do?
lol.....attend a Nascar event.....

4 Did you ever have a summer fling while on vacation?
yes...I was in Montreal...summer Olympics.....& the sweetest boy in the neighborhood where the house was that my father rented ......wrote me poems on scented papers..... =)

5. Have you ever done anything sexual with someone who's name you never knew?
lol......yes...in fact we didn't speak at all....


Bonus (as in optional): What is the best way to mend a broken heart?
Take responsibility for your part in the breakup.
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1. What is the meanest thing you've ever done/said to a lover/loved one?
I try not to remember those types of things......prolly something to do w/ their performance.....oh...wait..I do remember.....LOL It went something like "um.....I've slept with women who have made kitty happier".....yeah...kinda crushing..... OOOPS......
2. Have you ever had sex on an elevator?
This very subject came up in conversation as D and I were leaving the concert last nite........LOL I remarked how unhappy I was that their elevators were so efficient....there is no more "hold" button.......so U can get busy....& it was way to fast going where it was told to ......to get busy =(
3. Have you ever lied about a rash and said it was a birthmark? OR Have you ever lied about a birthmark and said it was a rash?
no
4. Have you ever had sex on a beach or in the water at a beach/pool?
on the beach?...yes In the water...yes in the water at the beach...yes In the water at the pool.....yes
5. How old are you? How old do you feel?
29 (again)....feel fantastic today.....bit exhausted.....in a good way....but anxious for the weekend to start! (taking TH & FRI off this week... )
6. Have you or your partner been injured so badly during sex that you/they had to go to the hospital?
OMG......NO...thats funny.....well not really.....but ....the inital thought of having to explain anything in the emergency room is funny......
7. Have you been to a strip club or "titty bar"? (Hooters does NOT count.) If so, did you get a lap dance?
Of course.....many times.....gone there .. & received lap dances......

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever had a "blog crush" (i.e., a crush on someone, of whatever gender, that you haven't met in person but only know through their blog)? Who? (Link, please, if you dare!) Nope......

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1. Should guys wear pink?
Of course !...UBER hawt when a guy wears what is typically viewed as 'a feminine color'.......U know....yellow...pink...light blue...light green..... =)

2. Do you kiss with your eyes open or closed?
depends....I find it can really ignite or escalate the level of excitement.....w/ eyes open.....but usually I close my eyes to fully live in the moment!

3. What is the first "non-physical" feature you tend to notice about a person you find attractive?
their voice.....patterns, accent, tone, confidence, volume ((whispering is hawt)), their laugh....

4. Have you ever showered with someone of the opposite sex?
um...DUH! every chance I get ......ok ...that didn't come out right.....lol what I MEAN is ......when I am in a relationship...most definite!! Usually...with candles...music....nice smelling (patchouli) body wash.....& an occasional sex-toy ... =)~ shhhhhh....

5. Would you rather receive amazing oral sex or have amazing sex?
have amazing sex.....not that I don't enjoy receiving oral...I do .....I DO!....but I would rather get off mutually w/ my partner.......

Bonus (as in optional): If you could say anything you wanted anonymously to anyone, without identifying that person, what would you say? My readers know me toooooo well ......to reveal what I would say.......however.....If I were to write what I want to say to a certain someone.....I think U would be shocked.....VERY non-Buddhist.....lol

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1. When you orgasm, do you hold your breath?
I think I might on the first one......lol ((of course I will uber consumed w/ this thought next time around))after that...no.....too busy trying to catch my breath

2. Have you ever had sex or played around with a celebrity? No

3. Do you think prostitution should be legal? Why or why not?
yes.....why not?.....there are so many positive societal reasons to support legalization. Less violence, less taboo - therefore less draw, better health regulations, less time our legal system spends defending, convicting...etc...& more time they can devote to the real criminals.....need I continue?

4. How do you masturbate? Do you romance yourself? Get straight to the point? Read erotic material?
* wow....how?...not sure I have to explain that one.....I guess U are asking technique?....
* well... in the shower....hands.....otherwise?...toys....or partners hands..other body parts....
* Romance?....lol no
* Not sure what U mean by straight to the point.....do I spend all day?....no.......would I like to spend all day?....sure...havent we all at some point in our lives?...w/ or w/out a partner.....lol
* Do I use toys?...yes Do I read erotica?...most def.....does that do it for me more than visual porn? most def......Albeit fun.....in order for visual porn to work for me.....there has to be a kink to it......B& D.....S&M....guy on guy.....threesomes.....close-up hard core f*ckin......

5. Which gives you the most pleasure - intercourse, masturbating for/with your partner, being masturbated by your partner.
WHAT the?......U are asking me to choose?......ok...I guess if I have to?......I really get off on watchin a guy do his thing......usually to the point that If I have any control over it?...I won't let him finish.........I want me some! Next ....I guess it would have to be mutual orgasms......both lost in this moment......animalistic....monkey sex.

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever had a crush on a relative? No I have not.

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1. What was your first job? Polo Pony Trainer
2. When did you go to your first funeral? 6th grade I think......
3. What is the sexiest word in the English dictionary? UBER
4. Are you left handed or right handed? Which direction does the top of your head lean when you kiss on the lips? Right Handed.....to my left initially......
5. Males: Which way do you dress?
Females: Which breast is larger? Neither.......

Bonus (as in optional):Define sexy? anything.....((smell, sight, sound, feel, emotion)) that stirs THOSE feelings within........

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1.Have you ever used foods in your sexual activities (ie; whipped cream, syrup, popsicles) and how did you use them? of COURSE....wear them...insert them...pour them....smear them....eat them...lick them.... =)
2. If your SO asked you to get them off using only your toes - would you do it and how? Yes I would...... I would pour some massage oil on my tootsies....grip between the big toe & her sister.....using proper leverage .....give a nice fj =) I not only have pretty feet....but very talented as well......
3. Would you ever participate in an orgy? Have you? Yes...I would ...& yes I have...
4. What can a lover do to turn you on instantly? Whisper nasty things he is planning for me in my ear......
5. Describe your favorite piece of lingerie or undergarments on yourself or your mate. I love tight slider boxers.....the kind that resemble slider shorts for baseball players.

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1. What sight, sound, smell, object or whatever most remind you of a special someone? The cologne or perfume that they wear.......

2. Favourite body part/parts of the opposite (or same) sex? say it with me readers.....LIPS! lol

3. Do you prefer to give or receive? Give

4. One night stands- What's the protocol? Stay the night or get the hell outta there? Depends on how good the sex was....if U drove....how late it is.....& what the morning brings?.....(work, weekend)

5. What is the strangest place you've had sex? "um...that would be in the ass...Bob"....LOL...((dating game blunders.......)) j/k....I guess it would be in the middle of the vortex in Sedona......thats on a mountain plateau which is rumored to give off supernatural healing energies.....

Bonus (as in optional): How old were you when you lost your virginity? Who was it to? Describe the event. Thought we already covered this one......ok...summer camp.....tent....Eric Zabel.....two others in the tent with us....all of us camp counselors......I think it was the summer before highschool.....it was nice.....not scary.....not painful.... =)

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1. Ideal amount of sex per week? Depends of the participants SEX drives.....some are satisfied w/ low #'S...others ....not so mach!!
2. Ever had an online affair? No
3. Are you a member of the mile high club? Most DEF! =)
4. Are you predjudice against any particular group of people? Chinese ((based in war crimes...& what has happened to TIBET ))
5. What constitutes bad sex? Selfishness....bad Hygiene....fumbling....lack of passion!

Bonus (as in optional): Can females ejaculate? Of course!!